How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How is it, in the USA, a country with 334 million people, the choice of President comes down to two aged men, one of whom is a liar as well as a criminal, one who appears to be on his way to dementia. Surely a democratic country can put up better?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Would the word literate carry the same meaning with public (common wealth) in 1900 vs today 2020?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Making more friends is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why do older men like to get anal sex?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Isn’t freedom of speech and expression an absolute right?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Does not procrastinate.

Why doesn't speeding significantly decrease one’s commute time? I've done a lot of road trips and driving and have experimented by increasing speed by 10–20%, but somehow this never equates to arriving 20% sooner, even on clear roads.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Is homosexuality an excommunicable offense in Christianity?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

What I need from you?

What are the signs of covert narcissistic abuse that most people miss?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

That's it for today.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Do interviewers discriminate against a candidate if he or she is overweight (assuming physical fitness is NOT part of the job requirements)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What's the gayest thing you have experienced on an only boys sleepover?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

How do I stop someone from forcing/pestering me to become gay/bisexual when I already want to be straight?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Atheists, there is a god up there in heaven and he loves you so much that he sent his son to die the worst death imaginable and then to turn into a zombie all to save you from sin. Why do you reject him?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.